“所谓弱德，是自我约束和收敛以” 的翻译

【 中文 】
所谓弱德，是自我约束和收敛以委曲求全的品质，“是贤人君子处在强大压力下仍然能有所持守、有所完成的一种品德……‘行有不得者皆反求诸己’‘躬自厚而薄责于人’，这是中国儒家的传统。”这，既是词的美感特征，也是她立身处世的准绳吧。

【 英语 】
The so-called weak morality is the quality of self-restraint and restraint to compromise. "It is a kind of morality that a wise man can still hold on to and accomplish under strong pressure... 'Everyone who can't do what he can', 'It is the tradition of Chinese Confucianism to be humble and blameless.'" This is not only the aesthetic feature of Ci, but also the yardstick of her life.